Jennifer Lopez is posing like nobody’s business on the latest January cover of Self Magazine. Dishing the sugar on everything from love loss to a new found self-identity, JLo makes us want to break hearts, if that means well be shimmy and shakin’ with a few ” I Luh Ya Papi” music video models!Definite turn up whistles.
And on a side note ladies and gigolos, aint nobody got time for Debbie Downers or lemnonade drinkers lurking out there. Objectification of both men and women is an unfortanute and sad reality of our state of the world with gender inequality. As a nation we’ve come a looong way. And Buddah vibes, hopefully it’ll keep getting better.
On her high profile break-ups...“When you have that much pain, you have to anesthetize yourself in some ways. People do different things. Some go out and party and sleep around, but that’s just not my way. I found the comfort in someone else. That’s called being a love addict. When I face myself, I go, You have a fear of really being on your own. So you know what? That’s what we’re gonna do right now. But it took me years to get there. So first it was learning to love myself. And then it was about facing my fears.”
On dating younger men…“All the old clichés about women need to be undone. Enough already. We’re in the other position now. We are desirable older, we can date younger guys and it’s not this big taboo. Men have been doing this for years, and it’s no big deal. Enough with the clichés about women. We can date younger guys…it’s no big deal.”
On her many projects...“I want to prove to everyone that I can do everything and be a superwoman. But I have to take time for myself.”
The notion that one of our countries most smokin liveentertainers has girl and guy problems just like the rest f us. Ahhh, here’s a cheers to finding happiness and such.
Scoot over to Self.com for thee entire article!
Press play kiddas. Trust you’ll than be Luh meh!
Jlo live at this year’s Fashion Rocks event. Because why not…Vogue.
